🎉 Nagomi Visit has a new name: Borderless Visit. Our mission remains the same, connecting people through home-cooked meals and genuine encounters. Learn more

Blog

Why Travelers Who Visit More Than One Japanese Family Never Regret It

2026-05-26

One Visit Is Never Enough | Borderless Visit

Ask anyone who has visited more than one Japanese family, and they will tell you the same thing: each one was completely different, and each one was wonderful in its own way.
That is what makes Borderless Visit so special. Every host has their own story, their own kitchen, their own way of welcoming you in.

Guest Story  ·  United Kingdom
Multiple Nagomi Visits
7 visits · 7 cities

Paul from the UK did not stop at one. By the end of his trip through Japan, he had sat at seven different dining tables, in seven different homes, across seven different parts of the country. And when asked to compare them, he found he simply couldn't.

"Everyone is different. Every single visit has been different in every way," he said. "So if you want to experience more, you gotta do more."

In Kyoto, his host put him at ease almost immediately. They started joking around early, which set the tone for the whole evening. When her friend joined them later, the relaxed atmosphere carried right through. In Hiroshima, his host invited a neighbor over: an art teacher who turned out to be a fascinating conversationalist, and who gave Paul a book of her work before the evening was over.

Then there was Takamatsu. A mother, two daughters, laughter from the moment he walked in, origami, paper cranes, and a piano. One of the daughters had learned the entire UK national anthem — and eventually got Paul to sing it. "I can't believe she learned the whole national anthem just like that," he said. "That was cool."

"I can't say one was definitely better than any other. They have all been absolutely brilliant."

— Paul, traveler from the United Kingdom

One of Paul's most unexpected observations had nothing to do with people. It was about the food. "The biggest surprise for me was no two meals were the same. Miso soup was a popular thing, but even then it was different in every place. They would put different things in it." Seven bowls of miso soup. Seven different versions. That detail, more than anything, captures what it means to visit more than one host.

Guest Stories  ·  Netherlands & Hong Kong
First-time visitors · 2 visits each

Both were visiting Japan for the first time. Both booked two Borderless Visits. And both came away wishing they had booked more.

The guest from the Netherlands had heard that getting into a Japanese home wasn't easy for travelers. Finding Borderless Visit felt like a solution to that. He booked two visits in two different cities, and by the time his trip was over, the thing he regretted most was not booking a third.

"It were two very, very nice hosts. They were real different from each other. That makes my experiences so much completer, richer. Three or more would have made it even more complete for me."

— Guest from the Netherlands

The guest from Hong Kong was traveling solo, and he approached his two bookings deliberately. He chose one host near Shinjuku, right in the center of Tokyo, and a second host in a quieter, non-tourist part of the city. Same city, completely different experience.

"I met host just living near Shinjuku. I see the life in the very center of Tokyo, the food, the house, the lifestyle of modern Japanese people," he said. His second visit brought him to a family home in the suburbs: quieter, more settled, with homemade sashimi and a couple genuinely curious about his life in Hong Kong.

"I met people in different ages, from different backgrounds, living in different parts of the city. The more you visit, the more you know about Japan."

— Guest from Hong Kong
Guest Stories  ·  Germany & United States

The pattern holds across guests from different countries, different travel styles, and different numbers of visits.
Here is what two more guests had to say.

Guest from Germany · 3 visits

"The good thing about doing more than one visit is the chance to meet even more new people and make maybe more new friends. And also try different foods. But I admit, while the food was always delicious, it was secondary to meeting my hosts."

First-time visitor to Japan
Guest from the United States · 3 visits

"I was able to visit three separate homes in three very different areas, places that I would otherwise have no reason to visit. Mari, Shizu, and Mari were all very, very nice. The meals and time I shared with them are among the most enjoyable experiences I have had in Japan."

Visited Japan 6 times
About Borderless Visit

More Than a Meal. A Genuine Connection.

Borderless Visit connects travelers with Japanese host families for an evening of authentic Japanese home dining. Not a restaurant, not a tour, but a real meal in a real home with people who are genuinely curious about you.

Every Japanese family dinner through Borderless Visit is different. Some involve kimono dressing and elaborate spreads. Others are quieter, more intimate: a kitchen conversation and a bowl of fruit.

For travelers looking for an authentic Japan experience beyond the standard itinerary, dining with a Japanese family offers something no guidebook can: the chance to be welcomed into someone's actual life, even briefly, and to leave having understood a little more about both Japan and yourself.

Your First Visit Is Just the Beginning.

Your first experience is already on its way.
Why not explore hosts in another city while you wait?

Book Another Experience

Three Families. One Unforgettable Japan. Real stories from travelers who shared a meal and a little bit of life with Japanese families.

2026-05-21

Real Stories from Real Travelers | Borderless Visit

The best moments in Japan are rarely the planned ones. They happen at a kitchen table, over a plate of handmade sushi, when someone laughs at something that doesn't quite translate, and you understand each other anyway. These are three of those moments.

Story 01  ·  Tokyo

Kimonos, Mochi, and a Meal to Remember: A Family's Dinner with a Japanese Family in Tokyo

Kevin's family in kimonos with their Japanese host The dinner spread prepared by the host family
Most memorable: Dressing in kimonos

The evening didn't start at the dinner table. It started with a kimono. Before a single dish was served, Kevin and his family found themselves dressed in traditional Japanese garments, laughing and posing for photos with their host family. It was the kind of moment you don't find in a guidebook.

From the moment they arrived, there was no awkward silence, no sense of being tourists on display. Instead, they were welcomed as guests: dressed up, pulled into the warmth of a family home, and made to feel genuinely at ease. For a family traveling through Japan for two weeks, this was already shaping up to be something special.

Then came dinner. Their host family had prepared a spread that reflected the full depth of Japanese home cooking : sushi, soba, skewers, and an array of dishes that arrived at the table without easy English names. The meal finished with mochi and homemade ice cream, a detail that stuck with Kevin long after the evening ended.

"Everyone in my family thought this was the best experience in Tokyo."

— Kevin, traveler from the United States

Around the table, the conversation flowed naturally. Kevin's family talked about life in America; their hosts talked about life in Japan. They compared travel stories, swapped perspectives on everyday challenges, and found common ground in the things that tend to be universal: what people enjoy, what they struggle with, what makes a good life.

Kevin and his host are still in touch on social media, a small but telling detail. An evening that began as a cultural exchange turned into something more like a genuine friendship, the kind that crosses time zones and persists after the trip is over.

Story 02  ·  Regional Japan

A Silk Kimono and a Banquet: One Traveler's Deeply Personal Evening in a Japanese Home

Shireen with her host at a traditional Japanese home Shireen dressed in a silk kimono during her Borderless Visit
Most memorable: A mother's silk kimono

Some experiences leave a mark before you even have the words for them. For Shireen, that moment came when her host invited her to wear a kimono. Not a rental, not a prop, but a beautiful silk kimono passed down from her host's own mother, given on her 20th birthday. Shireen was given the privilege of wearing it for the evening.

The night had begun with her host and a friend collecting Shireen and her companion from the train station, taking a detour to a nearby lookout point for a view of the region before arriving at a traditional Japanese home. The welcome was immediate and warm.

Dinner was a generous spread: sashimi, sushi, salad, chicken, vegetables, and a crepe cake, accompanied by plum wine. But what Shireen describes most is the conversation: her host's day, her work, her family, her own travels to Shireen's home country. By the end of the evening, Shireen had walked away with a list of local recommendations for the days ahead.

"Borderless Visit gives a unique opportunity to do something real and make a genuine connection during a visit to Japan. I think it is a great concept — I wish there was something similar everywhere."

— Shireen, traveler from Australia

There is something specific about being welcomed into a home, especially one where the objects on the shelves and the food on the table carry personal history. Shireen's evening was that kind of experience: not a performance of Japanese culture, but a genuine invitation into it.

Story 03  ·  Japan

Busy Moms, Google Translate, and a Food Bank: What an Afternoon in a Japanese Home Really Looks Like

Most memorable: Meeting her host's world

Shari came to Japan partly for her son, who is planning to move there the following year. She wanted to understand what ordinary life actually looks like. Not the temples and the tourist trails, but the everyday rhythm of a regular family. What she found was a busy mom who felt, in many ways, just like home.

Her host had a full schedule, the kind that leaves little room to spare, and yet she made the time. They talked for what felt like hours, covering everything from work and children to husbands and daily routines. When the language gap became too wide, they turned to Google Translate and kept going. "It seems that busy moms are the same everywhere," Shari observed. And that, in itself, turned out to be the discovery.

Midway through the afternoon, her host went to collect one of her children from a local food bank, and Shari came along. She met her host's friends, who were immediately curious about the visitor from New York. The idea of sharing everyday life across cultures made sense to people living it.

Dinner was a home-cooked meal: sushi, soup, fried chicken, rice, and a small bowl of fruit for dessert. Simple, careful, and made for a guest.

"The whole visit was terrific. Despite being half a world apart, I found that we were very similar."

— Shari, traveler from New York

Shari's booking didn't go entirely smoothly at the start. She missed the initial confirmation window due to a travel delay, but the Borderless Visit team stepped in and made the connection happen anyway. Sometimes things go sideways, and what matters is how they're handled.

About Borderless Visit

More Than a Meal. A Genuine Connection.

Borderless Visit connects travelers with Japanese host families for an evening of authentic Japanese home dining. Not a restaurant, not a tour, but a real meal in a real home with people who are genuinely curious about you.

Every Japanese family dinner through Borderless Visit is different. Some involve kimono dressing and elaborate spreads. Others are quieter, more intimate: a kitchen conversation and a bowl of fruit. What they share is the absence of a script. You're not a customer. You're a guest.

For travelers looking for an authentic Japan experience beyond the standard itinerary, dining with a Japanese family offers something no guidebook can: the chance to be welcomed into someone's actual life, even briefly, and to leave having understood a little more about both Japan and yourself.

Ready for Your Own Evening?

Every host family is different. Every meal is made for the people coming. Find the experience that feels right for your trip.

Start Your Experience

About Identity Verification

2026-01-16

For a safe and comfortable Borderless Visit experience for everyone

During the booking process, you may see a message asking you to complete identity verification.

This step is part of Borderless Visit’s ongoing efforts to create a safe, respectful, and welcoming environment for everyone involved.

Why is identity verification required?

A Borderless Visit experience is not a typical travel activity. It is an experience where you visit someone’s home and share a meal together.

Because of this unique setting, we believe that feeling safe and at ease is essential for both guests and hosts.

Identity verification helps reduce uncertainty and allows everyone to focus on enjoying the experience itself.

Identity verification for guests

Guests are asked to complete identity verification once, before their first payment.

  • Simply follow the on-screen instructions
  • No complicated steps are required
  • The process usually takes just a few minutes
  • Once completed, you will not need to verify again for future bookings

Hosts are verified as well

To ensure fairness and mutual trust, hosts also complete identity verification before welcoming their first guest.

Both guests and hosts go through the same process, helping create a shared sense of trust and confidence on both sides.

How your information is handled

Identity verification is conducted using a trusted external verification service.

  • Your ID images and personal information are not visible on Borderless Visit
  • Borderless Visit does not store or manually review your ID documents
  • Only the verification result is reflected in the system

Your privacy and security are carefully protected throughout the process.

A small step toward better experiences

At Borderless Visit, we believe that meaningful connections grow when people feel comfortable and respected.

Identity verification is not about control or surveillance. It is a small step toward creating an environment where more people can confidently enjoy the Borderless Visit experience.

Thank you for your understanding and cooperation.
We look forward to welcoming you!

Notice of Year-End and New Year Holiday Closure

2025-12-15

Hi Borderless Visitors,

Arigato, thank you for your interest and participation in Borderless Visit.
We’d like to let you know that our office will be on a short break over the New Year holiday. Please see the details below:

Holiday Closure

Our operations will be paused from December 30, 2025 through January 2, 2026.

We’ll be back to our regular schedule starting January 3, 2026.
If you contact us during the break, we’ll get back to you as soon as possible after we return, replying in the order messages are received.

For guests with bookings during the holiday period, we’ll share a separate guide with tips on what to do in case you need help regarding your visit.

Thank you for your patience and support. We hope you have a joyful and peaceful holiday season!

Warmly,
Borderless Visit Team

Important Update: Nagomi Visit Will Become Borderless Visit

2025-11-11

Hi, Nagomi Visitors! 👋

Whether you’ve shared a meal through Nagomi Visit before, or you just heard about us from a friend who said “you should check this out,” welcome!

We’re so glad you’re here — and we have some exciting news to share.

We’d like to let you know an important update regarding the future of Nagomi Visit.

Starting November 25, 2025, Nagomi Visit will be rebranded as Borderless Visit. This change will include updates to our name, logo, and participation fee.

What Will Change

1. New Name: From Nagomi Visit to Borderless Visit

Since September 1, 2025, Nagomi Visit has been operated by BORDERLESS HOUSE Corporation ( see our previous announcement here ). As part of the BORDERLESS HOUSE family, our new name reflects a renewed commitment to creating even more opportunities for meaningful cross-cultural connection.

2. New Logo:

Our website and materials will feature an updated design.


Nagomi Visit updated logo


Our new logo symbolizes the idea of “borderless” connections, where people come together around a shared table across countries and cultures. The globe-inspired design and warm colors express a world connected through everyday exchanges such as sharing meals, stories, and experiences across cultures. The mark also carries the spirit of continuity, as it evolves from the familiar Nagomi Visit logo to represent the next chapter of our journey.

3. Participation Fee:

The participation fee will be revised for payments made on or after November 25, 2025, as follows:

Category Current Fee (until Nov 24) New Fee (from Nov 25)
Ages 13 and over 5,500 yen 6,000 yen
Ages 5–12 4,000 yen 4,000 yen
Ages 0–4 Free Free

The new fee will apply only to payments made on or after November 25, 2025.

Payments completed before that date will remain unchanged, and no additional charge will be required.

What Will Stay the Same

The experience itself remain unchanged. Participants will continue to enjoy the same experience of connecting with local hosts over a home-cooked meal in a Japanese household, with the same booking process as before.

At the heart of Borderless Visit, our mission will also remain unchanged. We will continue to create meaningful moments for both guests and hosts, helping to reduce the prejudice and indifference that often come from misunderstanding. We believe that these small yet genuine exchanges can lead to a more open and connected world.

The same team members who have managed Nagomi Visit will continue to operate Borderless Visit, ensuring a smooth transition and consistent support for all our guests and hosts.

Looking Ahead

We are deeply grateful to everyone who has supported Nagomi Visit, including our wonderful guests, hosts, and partners, over the years.

We look forward to welcoming you into this new chapter as Borderless Visit, where new encounters and friendships will continue to grow beyond borders.

The Nagomi Visit Team

(soon to be Borderless Visit)

Important Update About Nagomi Visit’s Operations

2025-08-21

We’d like to share an important update regarding the operations of Nagomi Visit.

Starting September 1, 2025, Nagomi Visit will be operated by BORDERLESS HOUSE Corporation.

The Nagomi Visit team will continue working together under this new structure, and there will be no changes to our services, the booking process, or fees. If you already have a reservation, it will go forward just as planned.

The only change is that from September 1, BORDERLESS HOUSE Corporation will become the data controller. BORDERLESS HOUSE Corporation will manage your personal information in line with current laws and maintain the same high security standards we have always followed. If you have any questions about how your personal information will be handled, please feel free to contact the Nagomi Visit team directly.

A Message From Our Founder

Hello! I’m Megumi Kusunoki, Founder of Nagomi Visit.

Since launching Nagomi Visit in 2011, we’ve welcomed more than 10,000 travelers from around the world (as of August 2025). Each of them joined a Nagomi Visit to connect with locals over a home-cooked meal in a Japanese household, and through these experiences, many wonderful friendships have been formed. These meaningful experiences were made possible thanks to the warm support of our wonderful hosts and curious, open-minded guests.

From day one, we’ve asked ourselves:
How can people from different cultures and languages build real connections?

We gradually built a simple system where anyone could participate by opening their home and sharing a meal from the same pot.

Our mission has always remained the same. We aim to create meaningful moments for both guests and hosts, and to help reduce the prejudice and indifference that often come from misunderstanding. We believe that continuing these kinds of exchanges can bring about small but genuine change.

In recent years, especially after the COVID-19 pandemic, we’ve been exploring new ways to grow this initiative in a world where divisions feel even more present.

To build a stronger foundation and open up more opportunities for travelers and locals to come together, we’ve made this important move. We’re excited about what lies ahead and hope you’ll look forward to this next chapter of Nagomi Visit with us.

New Operating Company (from September 1, 2025)

BORDERLESS HOUSE Corporation
2F, 1-10-8 Yanagibashi, Taito-ku, Tokyo, Japan
Representative Director & CEO: Seiichi Lee

Thank you for being a part of the Nagomi Visit community. We look forward to welcoming you not just to a shared table, but into the everyday lives of our hosts. We hope you’ll enjoy the unique connections that come from this experience.

Megumi Kusunoki
Founder, NAGOMI VISIT

Nagomi Visit Guest Story: "We decided to try Nagomi Visit so that we could connect with and learn about Japanese culture through the people themselves — it ended up being much more than that!"

2025-08-01

Describe your host?

[My hosts] were such welcoming hosts from the moment they picked us up at the train station! Together, we went to the supermarket and got fresh fish to make rolled sushi together, and some traditional Japanese sweets to snack on. It was my birthday that day, and when we arrived at their house there were decorations hung up, and they even had a birthday cake for me — it was such a kind gesture and made the day even more special.

What did you talk about during your Nagomi Visit?

During the afternoon, we discussed our trip in Japan so far and where the family travelled to during their holidays. [My hosts] had welcomed many visitors, including old friends from university abroad and new people through Nagomi Visit. I come from Ireland, and my friend from Argentina, so we discussed our lives back home, the differences in schooling systems between our countries, typical foods, and other interests. [My host] works as an engineer for Canon, and I was happy to show him my analog camera and take some film photos of the couple (although it's a Pentax!).

What did you eat?

We had so much fun preparing rolled sushi and gyoza together — the fish from the supermarket was so fresh, and the gyoza were delicious! They had also prepared some other traditional dishes to enjoy with our meal.

Do you still keep in touch with your host?

We decided to try Nagomi Visit so that we could connect with and learn about Japanese culture through the people themselves — it ended up being much more than that! I still keep in touch with [my hosts] through Facebook, and will definitely be dropping in the next time I find myself in Japan. Thank you for your kind hospitality! Matane :)

Nagomi Visit Guest Story: "it was a wonderful opportunity for the young men to exchange experiences and advice."

2025-06-25

Describe your host?

Our visit with [my host] and her family was an unforgettable experience. I was particularly excited to meet [my host], a mother of three teenage sons, as I have a 19-year-old son interested in studying abroad in Japan. [My host]’s sons have both studied abroad, so it was a wonderful opportunity for the young men to exchange experiences and advice.

The evening began with snacks and tea, giving the boys a chance to get to know each other. They quickly bonded over shared interests in anime, movies, and video games, and my son enjoyed practicing his Japanese while they practiced their English. Watching these young adults connect and share their worlds was truly heartwarming.

Later, we enjoyed a delicious home-cooked meal, and the lively conversations continued. The evening flew by, and none of us wanted it to end, but we had to catch the last bus. [My host]’s entire family kindly saw us off at the station, a gesture that perfectly reflected their warmth and hospitality.

As a fellow mom, I also loved chatting with [my host] as we watched our kids thoroughly enjoy the evening. It’s a memory I’ll treasure forever. Thank you, [my host] and family, for such a special experience!

Nagomi Visit Guest Story: "I became very emotional — moments like these remind me how powerful kindness and connection can be."

2025-06-24

Describe your host?

[My host] was incredibly kind, welcoming, and thoughtful. From the moment we arrived, she made us feel at home — not just as guests, but like family. She went above and beyond to create a meaningful experience for us, especially for our daughter.

What stood out most was how genuine and attentive she was. She took the time to learn about us, share her own stories, and create a beautiful atmosphere of cultural exchange and friendship. Her best friend and their children were just as warm and open, and seeing all the kids play together was truly heartwarming.

We felt so much love and generosity from [my host] and her family. It’s a connection we’ll always treasure, and one we hope to continue in the future.

What did you talk about during your Nagomi Visit?

We talked about our life as overseas Filipino workers and why we are now living in Ireland instead of the Philippines. [My host] and I also discovered that we work in the same profession, which made our conversation even more interesting.

We shared stories about places in the Philippines that her family would like to visit, and we also talked about the current situation in Japan. While cooking takoyaki together, we talked about the ingredients, food, and drinks we enjoyed. We even exchanged some basic Japanese words and learned a bit more about each other’s language.

[My host] also shared her love for making origami, which was lovely to hear. It was a meaningful and fun conversation that made us feel truly connected.

What did you eat?

We ate thick sushi roll, takoyaki, and lots of kids' foods that our daughter loved. We actually bought the same kids' foods and brought them back here to Ireland.

What was your most memorable moment?

Our most memorable moment was when the host family surprised our daughter with a beautiful birthday celebration. They sang to her, decorated their home with so much love, prepared a cake for her to blow out, and even gave her thoughtful gifts. As parents, our hearts were overflowing with happiness.

It meant so much to see our daughter celebrated in such a warm and sincere way, especially while being far from home. I became very emotional — moments like these remind me how powerful kindness and connection can be. We will forever be grateful to [my host], her family, her best friend, and their wonderful children.

One day, I hope we can welcome them to Ireland and return the warmth they shared with us.

Do you still keep in touch with your host?

Yes 😍

Why did you go on a Nagomi Visit?

I joined Nagomi Visit because I wanted my daughter to meet Japanese children and experience genuine cultural exchange from a young age. I believe these connections can leave lasting impressions and maybe even grow into future friendships. As a small family living abroad, originally from the Philippines and now in Ireland, we deeply value moments where we can learn from others and share our own story as an overseas Filipino family.

This experience gave us something truly special: a glimpse into everyday Japanese life, beyond the tourist spots. It reminded us how food, family, and conversation can bring people together, no matter where we’re from. I’m so grateful for the warmth and openness of the family who welcomed us — it’s a memory we will carry with us for years to come.

Nagomi Visit Guest Story: "We discovered what the children were learning in school, similar to North America but with a Japanese flare."

2025-05-12

Describe your host?

[My hosts] were a wonderful family of 4. The children were 9 and 7 years old. They were very welcoming and conversation was easy even with the language barrier.

What did you talk about during your Nagomi Visit?

We talked about our lifestyle in Canada including our favourite foods, hobbies, and our families.

Did you make any new discoveries?

We discovered what the children were learning in school, similar to North America but with a Japanese flare.

What did you eat?

We had a delicious dinner with small salads, miso soup, rice, takoyaki, and a variety of homemade dangos for dessert. The children showed us how to make the takoyaki.

What was your most memorable moment?

The entire evening was memorable — great conversation, excellent food, and company.

Do you still keep in touch with your host?

Yes, we continue to communicate by email and hope to do so going forward. We share family photos and experiences.